"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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shut up about looks NOW

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Wyldfire

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
Oh yeah??? Well I'm 20 and I only look 15!!! Beat that b*tch!
dip...(hehe, I like that)...it's ONLY cool to look younger when you're older. :D

Ironically, when I was 18 a 12 year old boy asked me to be his date for a dance. He thought my husband was my father. Now THAT was hilarious.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wyld... how sad musn't you be, to have to spend so much time on this board?
I know, you're loving this thread right now - you're getting so much damn attention... You're enjoying it greatly, like the attention wh0re you really are.

But, for christ's sake, get out, get laid and stop looking for attention on these boards. This is a board about self-improvement, so improve yourself or leave.
 
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