"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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shut up about looks NOW

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
Oh yeah??? Well I'm 20 and I only look 15!!! Beat that b*tch!
dip...(hehe, I like that)...it's ONLY cool to look younger when you're older. :D

Ironically, when I was 18 a 12 year old boy asked me to be his date for a dance. He thought my husband was my father. Now THAT was hilarious.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wyld... how sad musn't you be, to have to spend so much time on this board?
I know, you're loving this thread right now - you're getting so much damn attention... You're enjoying it greatly, like the attention wh0re you really are.

But, for christ's sake, get out, get laid and stop looking for attention on these boards. This is a board about self-improvement, so improve yourself or leave.
 
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