iqqi
Master Don Juan
STFU, and just eat the damned pizza. What, are you going to throw it away to spite the messenger?KarmaSutra said:It's not that the pizza isn't great, it's that the DELIVERY sucks.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
STFU, and just eat the damned pizza. What, are you going to throw it away to spite the messenger?KarmaSutra said:It's not that the pizza isn't great, it's that the DELIVERY sucks.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Yes sir, I just might toss it if it leaves a sh1tty taste in my mouth afterwards.iqqi said:STFU, and just eat the damned pizza. What, are you going to throw it away to spite the messenger?![]()
Ah no iqqi.iqqi said:I don't understand why some of you are all so sensitive about D&B's delivery. That's kind of... womanly?
I thought women were supposed to be the emotional ones.
It is a general belief in society that verbal eloquence correlates to mental prowess, and vice versa.iqqi said:I don't understand why some of you are all so sensitive about D&B's delivery. That's kind of... womanly?
I thought women were supposed to be the emotional ones.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
actually, the way he presented his views was kind of womanly - ie. over emotional and insulting. his post left no room for discussion, if you didn't agree with him you basically had no choice but ot engage in a battle of words because that is the frame he set.iqqi said:I don't understand why some of you are all so sensitive about D&B's delivery. That's kind of... womanly?
I thought women were supposed to be the emotional ones.
Luveno said:It is a general belief in society that verbal eloquence correlates to mental prowess, and vice versa.
"It's not that you can't think straight without good grammar, it's that the same mental skill set leads to both clear thinking and clear speaking. Any person who consistently thinks clearly and correctly will just naturally speak, write, sketch, diagram, and code clearly and correctly, without making a separate effort to do so. Poorly written memos and instructions carry this subtext: I am omnipotent and my time and energy is golden; you are slime and your time and energy is of no account; therefore I will minimize the effort I put into making my utterances, leaving them only as complete and meaningful as my whim dictates; you will compensate by spending as much of your life and substance as required to make sense of these pearls; and woe betide you if you fail."
Ah yes. The school of thought that taking lumps gratefully and never complaining makes you a man.iqqi said:I don't understand why some of you are all so sensitive about D&B's delivery. That's kind of... womanly?![]()
How much of this forum revolves around the discussion of various methods though? Very little. There is the odd basic question, but there is less discussion regarding "game" (Man I hate that ****) and more discussion regarding psycology, culture, certain situations and life improvement. I have been lurking here for about 4 years now, posting here and there. It just offers more then something like the Mystery Method forums. I have no interest in becoming a PUA extrodanaire. Its a lifestyle Im not keen on being a little more conservative.Luveno said:Drum&Bass does make a good point in this post.
Nobody can disagree that although picking up women is the major focus of this website, having interests and desires outside of women is very important for one to live a well-balanced, fulfilling lifestyle.
...not to mention that women are not the major focus of a true Don Juan. The DJ Bible emphasizes this point numerous times.
Although, Drum&Bass, you should perhaps start to write posts in a more organized, conventional manner. Much of what you say gets scoffed at instantly just because of the poor grammar and numerous colloquialisms you use.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.