iqqi
Master Don Juan
STFU, and just eat the damned pizza. What, are you going to throw it away to spite the messenger?KarmaSutra said:It's not that the pizza isn't great, it's that the DELIVERY sucks.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
STFU, and just eat the damned pizza. What, are you going to throw it away to spite the messenger?KarmaSutra said:It's not that the pizza isn't great, it's that the DELIVERY sucks.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Yes sir, I just might toss it if it leaves a sh1tty taste in my mouth afterwards.iqqi said:STFU, and just eat the damned pizza. What, are you going to throw it away to spite the messenger?![]()
Ah no iqqi.iqqi said:I don't understand why some of you are all so sensitive about D&B's delivery. That's kind of... womanly?
I thought women were supposed to be the emotional ones.
It is a general belief in society that verbal eloquence correlates to mental prowess, and vice versa.iqqi said:I don't understand why some of you are all so sensitive about D&B's delivery. That's kind of... womanly?
I thought women were supposed to be the emotional ones.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
actually, the way he presented his views was kind of womanly - ie. over emotional and insulting. his post left no room for discussion, if you didn't agree with him you basically had no choice but ot engage in a battle of words because that is the frame he set.iqqi said:I don't understand why some of you are all so sensitive about D&B's delivery. That's kind of... womanly?
I thought women were supposed to be the emotional ones.
Luveno said:It is a general belief in society that verbal eloquence correlates to mental prowess, and vice versa.
"It's not that you can't think straight without good grammar, it's that the same mental skill set leads to both clear thinking and clear speaking. Any person who consistently thinks clearly and correctly will just naturally speak, write, sketch, diagram, and code clearly and correctly, without making a separate effort to do so. Poorly written memos and instructions carry this subtext: I am omnipotent and my time and energy is golden; you are slime and your time and energy is of no account; therefore I will minimize the effort I put into making my utterances, leaving them only as complete and meaningful as my whim dictates; you will compensate by spending as much of your life and substance as required to make sense of these pearls; and woe betide you if you fail."
Ah yes. The school of thought that taking lumps gratefully and never complaining makes you a man.iqqi said:I don't understand why some of you are all so sensitive about D&B's delivery. That's kind of... womanly?![]()
How much of this forum revolves around the discussion of various methods though? Very little. There is the odd basic question, but there is less discussion regarding "game" (Man I hate that ****) and more discussion regarding psycology, culture, certain situations and life improvement. I have been lurking here for about 4 years now, posting here and there. It just offers more then something like the Mystery Method forums. I have no interest in becoming a PUA extrodanaire. Its a lifestyle Im not keen on being a little more conservative.Luveno said:Drum&Bass does make a good point in this post.
Nobody can disagree that although picking up women is the major focus of this website, having interests and desires outside of women is very important for one to live a well-balanced, fulfilling lifestyle.
...not to mention that women are not the major focus of a true Don Juan. The DJ Bible emphasizes this point numerous times.
Although, Drum&Bass, you should perhaps start to write posts in a more organized, conventional manner. Much of what you say gets scoffed at instantly just because of the poor grammar and numerous colloquialisms you use.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.