iqqi
Master Don Juan
STFU, and just eat the damned pizza. What, are you going to throw it away to spite the messenger?KarmaSutra said:It's not that the pizza isn't great, it's that the DELIVERY sucks.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
STFU, and just eat the damned pizza. What, are you going to throw it away to spite the messenger?KarmaSutra said:It's not that the pizza isn't great, it's that the DELIVERY sucks.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yes sir, I just might toss it if it leaves a sh1tty taste in my mouth afterwards.iqqi said:STFU, and just eat the damned pizza. What, are you going to throw it away to spite the messenger?![]()
Ah no iqqi.iqqi said:I don't understand why some of you are all so sensitive about D&B's delivery. That's kind of... womanly?
I thought women were supposed to be the emotional ones.
It is a general belief in society that verbal eloquence correlates to mental prowess, and vice versa.iqqi said:I don't understand why some of you are all so sensitive about D&B's delivery. That's kind of... womanly?
I thought women were supposed to be the emotional ones.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
actually, the way he presented his views was kind of womanly - ie. over emotional and insulting. his post left no room for discussion, if you didn't agree with him you basically had no choice but ot engage in a battle of words because that is the frame he set.iqqi said:I don't understand why some of you are all so sensitive about D&B's delivery. That's kind of... womanly?
I thought women were supposed to be the emotional ones.
Luveno said:It is a general belief in society that verbal eloquence correlates to mental prowess, and vice versa.
"It's not that you can't think straight without good grammar, it's that the same mental skill set leads to both clear thinking and clear speaking. Any person who consistently thinks clearly and correctly will just naturally speak, write, sketch, diagram, and code clearly and correctly, without making a separate effort to do so. Poorly written memos and instructions carry this subtext: I am omnipotent and my time and energy is golden; you are slime and your time and energy is of no account; therefore I will minimize the effort I put into making my utterances, leaving them only as complete and meaningful as my whim dictates; you will compensate by spending as much of your life and substance as required to make sense of these pearls; and woe betide you if you fail."
Ah yes. The school of thought that taking lumps gratefully and never complaining makes you a man.iqqi said:I don't understand why some of you are all so sensitive about D&B's delivery. That's kind of... womanly?![]()
How much of this forum revolves around the discussion of various methods though? Very little. There is the odd basic question, but there is less discussion regarding "game" (Man I hate that ****) and more discussion regarding psycology, culture, certain situations and life improvement. I have been lurking here for about 4 years now, posting here and there. It just offers more then something like the Mystery Method forums. I have no interest in becoming a PUA extrodanaire. Its a lifestyle Im not keen on being a little more conservative.Luveno said:Drum&Bass does make a good point in this post.
Nobody can disagree that although picking up women is the major focus of this website, having interests and desires outside of women is very important for one to live a well-balanced, fulfilling lifestyle.
...not to mention that women are not the major focus of a true Don Juan. The DJ Bible emphasizes this point numerous times.
Although, Drum&Bass, you should perhaps start to write posts in a more organized, conventional manner. Much of what you say gets scoffed at instantly just because of the poor grammar and numerous colloquialisms you use.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.