"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shows my progress :D

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My mates is such a AFC it is hilarious!

Well here goes . . .

This guy was having a party the AFC guy that is. So AFC's party going great, using my new found DJ Skills on this girl 8 id say. Then the AFC gets her interest cause he brings his f**king cat in the room and gets all the attension, o man i was thinking what a desperate attempt. So the b*****ds screwed me over and hes workin on this 8. He makes out with her and gets cuddly for the rest of the night.

Next morning, I was really on a downer because i really thought i could get her and this chomp does. But then i says to myself "This guys a complete AFC nothing will amount from here." Then the AFC wakes up and as soon as he does he comfirms to me that he is AFC by messaging the 8 with somthing on the lines off "Had a great night last night, blah blah AFC bulls**t." :D So im happy now.

Then prom night :D (UK style, got wasted great night but wasnt as good as it was on American Pie looked :D) she hooks up with this other dude and then the AFC is like to the girl im not talking to and all this bulls**t so im p***ing my pants with laughter. Thought to myself "Should i give him the link to this forum or not."

nar :D

So Prom night, thank you guys for turning me away from AFC and i did get some action :D whereas if i didnt bother with this forum i would of been in the same boat as that AFC.

Sorry for any poor spelling or grammer.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It is completly AFC to let her know you had a great night. Brilliant.
 
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it is not completly afc to let her know you had a great night....as long as is something like the date 23+ with her...

if you just met her the night before and you tell her you had a great time, why would it be a great time,he just met another girl, made out with her big deal....not so good of an idea to text her telling her already how much fun you have with her
 
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well if she asks you thne what should you say? and if it really was a special night, not just the average night, where you just tlak a bit and pull a bit, what if you really connected, then should you say you had a good time?
 
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if she asked me then, check. I'd do some ****y and funny. Smile on my face, look her in the eyes "i've had better".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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