"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shows my progress :D

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My mates is such a AFC it is hilarious!

Well here goes . . .

This guy was having a party the AFC guy that is. So AFC's party going great, using my new found DJ Skills on this girl 8 id say. Then the AFC gets her interest cause he brings his f**king cat in the room and gets all the attension, o man i was thinking what a desperate attempt. So the b*****ds screwed me over and hes workin on this 8. He makes out with her and gets cuddly for the rest of the night.

Next morning, I was really on a downer because i really thought i could get her and this chomp does. But then i says to myself "This guys a complete AFC nothing will amount from here." Then the AFC wakes up and as soon as he does he comfirms to me that he is AFC by messaging the 8 with somthing on the lines off "Had a great night last night, blah blah AFC bulls**t." :D So im happy now.

Then prom night :D (UK style, got wasted great night but wasnt as good as it was on American Pie looked :D) she hooks up with this other dude and then the AFC is like to the girl im not talking to and all this bulls**t so im p***ing my pants with laughter. Thought to myself "Should i give him the link to this forum or not."

nar :D

So Prom night, thank you guys for turning me away from AFC and i did get some action :D whereas if i didnt bother with this forum i would of been in the same boat as that AFC.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It is completly AFC to let her know you had a great night. Brilliant.
 
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it is not completly afc to let her know you had a great night....as long as is something like the date 23+ with her...

if you just met her the night before and you tell her you had a great time, why would it be a great time,he just met another girl, made out with her big deal....not so good of an idea to text her telling her already how much fun you have with her
 
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well if she asks you thne what should you say? and if it really was a special night, not just the average night, where you just tlak a bit and pull a bit, what if you really connected, then should you say you had a good time?
 
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if she asked me then, check. I'd do some ****y and funny. Smile on my face, look her in the eyes "i've had better".
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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