"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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No I didn't get my ass kicked at the local shopping center. My boy was talkin smack about him having tighter game and sh!t (there's been slackin in my mackin:() so we gonna have a little show-off where we both go into the field and see who can pull the most... There are 5 of my friends coming to watch too. This is gonna be pressure like whoa, I hardly CA by myself so with cheerleaders I dunno whats gonna happen. Yea I know this sounds stupid, but its primative nature to proof ya dominance over the lesser male ;) It's gonna be fun anyways cuz it's with friends and they can push me into the field and go for it. Anyone been in this kinda situ? Words of wisdom would be appreciated so I don't get embarrased
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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These can be fun. Not only just because you are going out to approach a lot, but also to see who has the greatest "how I got shot down" story.
 
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just did a search, and found some posts on this topic including crazykid ( ^^^^ ) going after cashiers and gurls with bf outside taco bell :) aight u can delete this thread
 
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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
just did a search, and found some posts on this topic including crazykid ( ^^^^ ) going after cashiers and gurls with bf outside taco bell :) aight u can delete this thread
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Instead of deleting it, how about you just post the field report so we can learn something from your experiences. :)
 
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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
just did a search, and found some posts on this topic including crazykid ( ^^^^ ) going after cashiers and gurls with bf outside taco bell :) aight u can delete this thread
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Ah, those were the days. :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well we do this for fun, but we have no pressure on us, its just like yo i can pull her over, watch ...

just casual stuff...
 
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eh.... it was soooo weak it brought down the entire night. No-one approached anybody. granted there weren't really any good looknig gurls but I shoulda tried to go after something. The one or two gurls that where fine were older but damn, that shouldn't have stopped me. I be primed all the time, and stay in the "MoAF persona" Start throwing myself into the most awkward situation and fight my way back.

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im hitting the mall tomorrow for this...

yo fiend get soulseek dude

www.slsknet.org

look for me my user name is

Phayzrks
 
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