"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Showing your body

Kpocalypse

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Hey Djs.

I have a really nice body, I mean really nice, six-pack, strong chest etc. But I don't get to show it much. I mean, I have an average looking face which is visible all the time, but I think showing my body in some ways would be a really beneficial thing to do. I mean, when I'm swimming and doing activities like that I get looks all the time because of my body, but when I have cloths on, it doesn't show so much. What do you guys do to make your body's physical condition shown?
I know some will say wear tight cloths, but if I do I will only get big ass sweat stains under my arm (even when I'm wearing deodorant with antiperspirant, it doesn't smell though), and that's not attractive.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CrizzleGA

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just walk around with just a robe on (naked under the robe) and when ever you want to get people to look at you just start flashing people... I am sure you will get plenty of looks because of your body.
 

Jay-X

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if you wear a tight pullover, you won't get sweat staines... i mean, nobody will be able to see them.
i also wear tight zipped up jacket, letterman like
if you have a nice @ss, what about some jeans that are loose on the frontside, but tight in the rear end?
 

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1. Wear t-shirt that is not too tight.
2. Wear a sweater or hoodie or pullover.
3. Say "oh god, it's too hot in here."
4. Proceed to take off the sweater/pullover/hoodie and your t-shirt should start coming up too, enough to show your six pack.
5. Chuck your hoodie somewhere and pull your t-shirt back down.
6. Say "whew, that feels better."
7. Act like you didn't just give her a free show.
8. Run your game and do a lot of kino now that she knows you've got the guns. the buns and the PACK
 

Kpocalypse

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Hehe, yea, I'll try that. Unfortunatly my ass isn't that nice, so no tight jeans for me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by Kpocalypse
Hehe, yea, I'll try that. Unfortunatly my ass isn't that nice, so no tight jeans for me.
Chicks only check out your ass, so hit the squat rack. Nobody cares about your chest and arms except your boyfriend.
 

Duke

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Chicks only check out your ass, so hit the squat rack. Nobody cares about your chest and arms except your boyfriend.
LMAO
 

semag

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Chicks only check out your ass, so hit the squat rack. Nobody cares about your chest and arms except your boyfriend.

hahaha... LOL... that's what I"m thinkin, and if a dude has no ass, then he hasn't squatted... and if he hasn't squatted - he has no chest or arms ;)
 

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i was told by a chick i had a "Good ass"

who says that. " you have a good ass"

it sounds lame... "you have a nice ass" sounds alot better.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Kpocalypse

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Is it really that important? Like come on, how often you get to show it? When you are doing it with the girl? If you got that far your skinny ass isn't going to ruin your game. But anyway...I'll work on that.
 

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Originally posted by Kpocalypse
Is it really that important? Like come on, how often you get to show it? When you are doing it with the girl? If you got that far your skinny ass isn't going to ruin your game. But anyway...I'll work on that.
If you have a powerful looking upper body
then a skinny ass is going to ruin the proportions.
 

thefonz

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Originally posted by Kerensky
1. Wear t-shirt that is not too tight.
2. Wear a sweater or hoodie or pullover.
3. Say "oh god, it's too hot in here."
4. Proceed to take off the sweater/pullover/hoodie and your t-shirt should start coming up too, enough to show your six pack.
5. Chuck your hoodie somewhere and pull your t-shirt back down.
6. Say "whew, that feels better."
7. Act like you didn't just give her a free show.
8. Run your game and do a lot of kino now that she knows you've got the guns. the buns and the PACK
LMAO......Stop giving out my secrets!
 
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