"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Showing your body

Kpocalypse

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Hey Djs.

I have a really nice body, I mean really nice, six-pack, strong chest etc. But I don't get to show it much. I mean, I have an average looking face which is visible all the time, but I think showing my body in some ways would be a really beneficial thing to do. I mean, when I'm swimming and doing activities like that I get looks all the time because of my body, but when I have cloths on, it doesn't show so much. What do you guys do to make your body's physical condition shown?
I know some will say wear tight cloths, but if I do I will only get big ass sweat stains under my arm (even when I'm wearing deodorant with antiperspirant, it doesn't smell though), and that's not attractive.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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CrizzleGA

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just walk around with just a robe on (naked under the robe) and when ever you want to get people to look at you just start flashing people... I am sure you will get plenty of looks because of your body.
 

Jay-X

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if you wear a tight pullover, you won't get sweat staines... i mean, nobody will be able to see them.
i also wear tight zipped up jacket, letterman like
if you have a nice @ss, what about some jeans that are loose on the frontside, but tight in the rear end?
 

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1. Wear t-shirt that is not too tight.
2. Wear a sweater or hoodie or pullover.
3. Say "oh god, it's too hot in here."
4. Proceed to take off the sweater/pullover/hoodie and your t-shirt should start coming up too, enough to show your six pack.
5. Chuck your hoodie somewhere and pull your t-shirt back down.
6. Say "whew, that feels better."
7. Act like you didn't just give her a free show.
8. Run your game and do a lot of kino now that she knows you've got the guns. the buns and the PACK
 

Kpocalypse

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Hehe, yea, I'll try that. Unfortunatly my ass isn't that nice, so no tight jeans for me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by Kpocalypse
Hehe, yea, I'll try that. Unfortunatly my ass isn't that nice, so no tight jeans for me.
Chicks only check out your ass, so hit the squat rack. Nobody cares about your chest and arms except your boyfriend.
 

Duke

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Chicks only check out your ass, so hit the squat rack. Nobody cares about your chest and arms except your boyfriend.
LMAO
 

semag

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Chicks only check out your ass, so hit the squat rack. Nobody cares about your chest and arms except your boyfriend.

hahaha... LOL... that's what I"m thinkin, and if a dude has no ass, then he hasn't squatted... and if he hasn't squatted - he has no chest or arms ;)
 

Thraxeh

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i was told by a chick i had a "Good ass"

who says that. " you have a good ass"

it sounds lame... "you have a nice ass" sounds alot better.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kpocalypse

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Is it really that important? Like come on, how often you get to show it? When you are doing it with the girl? If you got that far your skinny ass isn't going to ruin your game. But anyway...I'll work on that.
 

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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Originally posted by Kpocalypse
Is it really that important? Like come on, how often you get to show it? When you are doing it with the girl? If you got that far your skinny ass isn't going to ruin your game. But anyway...I'll work on that.
If you have a powerful looking upper body
then a skinny ass is going to ruin the proportions.
 

thefonz

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Originally posted by Kerensky
1. Wear t-shirt that is not too tight.
2. Wear a sweater or hoodie or pullover.
3. Say "oh god, it's too hot in here."
4. Proceed to take off the sweater/pullover/hoodie and your t-shirt should start coming up too, enough to show your six pack.
5. Chuck your hoodie somewhere and pull your t-shirt back down.
6. Say "whew, that feels better."
7. Act like you didn't just give her a free show.
8. Run your game and do a lot of kino now that she knows you've got the guns. the buns and the PACK
LMAO......Stop giving out my secrets!
 
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