"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Showing Social Proof Through Appearance

G

gregory

Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2004
Messages
52
Reaction score
0
Okay, i hardly post here anymore but i wanted to know if u can show social proof "you're cool" and "wanted" and "liked" by many through what u wear? like piercings, haircuts, clothes...

what do u wear that shows social proof? for me, its a nice watch, shades and some nice clothes, and good clean shoes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

C

cactus3178

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 11, 2004
Messages
481
Reaction score
3
Age
48
Location
P-Town 503
I'm with you on the good clothes and shoes. I have no idea why, but the ladies always look at shoes.
 
G

gregory

Don Juan
Joined
May 30, 2004
Messages
52
Reaction score
0
i asked my mom and i was wearing REALLY white looking shoes..... i said "what can u tell about me from my shoes" and she goes "you're neat" and cuz they were nike's she added you're athletic.... but would it be possible that girls determine how cool a guy is by how many "shoes" he has?? i honestly think that if a guy has lots of shoes, this shows he is stylish, and that is social proof eh?
 
C

California Love

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2004
Messages
652
Reaction score
0
Location
The Bay Area
Why would girls look at your shoes when they should be looking into your eyes? I wear sandals, and they dont hinder me.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top