"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Showing Social Proof Through Appearance

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Okay, i hardly post here anymore but i wanted to know if u can show social proof "you're cool" and "wanted" and "liked" by many through what u wear? like piercings, haircuts, clothes...

what do u wear that shows social proof? for me, its a nice watch, shades and some nice clothes, and good clean shoes.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm with you on the good clothes and shoes. I have no idea why, but the ladies always look at shoes.
 
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i asked my mom and i was wearing REALLY white looking shoes..... i said "what can u tell about me from my shoes" and she goes "you're neat" and cuz they were nike's she added you're athletic.... but would it be possible that girls determine how cool a guy is by how many "shoes" he has?? i honestly think that if a guy has lots of shoes, this shows he is stylish, and that is social proof eh?
 
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California Love

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Why would girls look at your shoes when they should be looking into your eyes? I wear sandals, and they dont hinder me.
 
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