Showing Interest?

[B0SS MAN]

So my most recent attempt with this girl went downhill since she tells me she has a boyfriend now. I was pretty sure she was interested because we would flirt all the time and talk about sex and kissing and stuff and I even tried to get her to chill with me but she says i never made a move on her. I felt like I clearly showed my interest but maybe this has been my problem all along. How do you make sure for a fact that she knows that you're interested?

 

[DJ Miquelo]

I personally talk about sexual things, I use my body language to convey my desire... then i kiss her!

 

[TheJazz]

How do you make sure she knows you're interested? Aye aye aye. Be direct, man. Fluff talk, flirting, all this crap is for women. They're passive and indirect. We're men. We skip the crap & cut to the chase. Tell her. Or ask her out on a date. Or just kino her and keep escalating till you get to the kiss. In any of these circumstances, if she objects, you'll know she knows you're interested & doesn't want you. Next!

 

[terran2k]

yep, ask her out on a date.

 

[Radharc]

Flirting and talking about sex is fine, but in the end you still have to make a move, to escalate.

Despite all the feminist bullcrap 99,9% of the women still expect the man to be the one who makes the move and escalate.

Not doing it when you have done the flirting and sex talking is just buying an executive class ticket to the friend zone.

 

[PapiChulo]

Women can smell interest from afar as well. All she wants to say that some fella has gotten to her earlier than you did. And boyfriend, please? How long does it take to make someone a boyfriend - months? years? -meaning that you had to pull the trigger long time ago.

You have to butter them up before you make a move. After that it's all about timing. If you coming from out of the blue, she is likely to reject you anyway, yet you cant wait too long.

if you are "sexual" you wont get friend-zoned- she will be likely to cut you off or let you know that it's unneeded.