So my most recent attempt with this girl went downhill since she tells me she has a boyfriend now. I was pretty sure she was interested because we would flirt all the time and talk about sex and kissing and stuff and I even tried to get her to chill with me but she says i never made a move on her. I felt like I clearly showed my interest but maybe this has been my problem all along. How do you make sure for a fact that she knows that you're interested?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Showing Interest?
- Thread starter B0SS MAN
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DJ Miquelo
Don Juan
I personally talk about sexual things, I use my body language to convey my desire... then i kiss her!
How do you make sure she knows you're interested? Aye aye aye. Be direct, man. Fluff talk, flirting, all this crap is for women. They're passive and indirect. We're men. We skip the crap & cut to the chase. Tell her. Or ask her out on a date. Or just kino her and keep escalating till you get to the kiss. In any of these circumstances, if she objects, you'll know she knows you're interested & doesn't want you. Next!
Flirting and talking about sex is fine, but in the end you still have to make a move, to escalate.
Despite all the feminist bullcrap 99,9% of the women still expect the man to be the one who makes the move and escalate.
Not doing it when you have done the flirting and sex talking is just buying an executive class ticket to the friend zone.
Despite all the feminist bullcrap 99,9% of the women still expect the man to be the one who makes the move and escalate.
Not doing it when you have done the flirting and sex talking is just buying an executive class ticket to the friend zone.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Women can smell interest from afar as well. All she wants to say that some fella has gotten to her earlier than you did. And boyfriend, please? How long does it take to make someone a boyfriend - months? years? -meaning that you had to pull the trigger long time ago.
You have to butter them up before you make a move. After that it's all about timing. If you coming from out of the blue, she is likely to reject you anyway, yet you cant wait too long.
if you are "sexual" you wont get friend-zoned- she will be likely to cut you off or let you know that it's unneeded.
You have to butter them up before you make a move. After that it's all about timing. If you coming from out of the blue, she is likely to reject you anyway, yet you cant wait too long.
if you are "sexual" you wont get friend-zoned- she will be likely to cut you off or let you know that it's unneeded.