"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Showing interest

Huffman

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krazyboy99 said:
CNF CAN AND WILL GET YOU FRIENDZONED if you don't show any interest! it has happened to me countless times.
What would be some good ways to explicitely show your interest?
Whilst not giving yourself away too much and not coming on too strong.

There are some threads about it, but please share your thoughts nonetheless.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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I'm thinking of eventually using "you seem nice" in future cold approaches just before asking for dates, is that something part of the right line between neediness and interest?
 

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HandyAndy said:
Kino, eye contact
to be true andy, im sick of this advices. they are just not to the point and clear enough. many of u will see that any two confident persons even if they are of same sex and enjoy being with each other or a bro and a sis uses non-threatening kino and comfortable eye contact with each other. so, are we talking about just casual interest here or we are supposed to show sexual or romantic interest which is normally called flirting?

if it is flirting, its more of a little long eye locking, sly smile and threatening kinos. guys, just saying kino or eye contact isnt going to work if u want to take it to the next level. should we use flirting right from beginning? or flirting openers or just start a chat and quickly change into the flirting vibe?

i want some real detailed answers here...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My point exactly schttrj :)

Sexual/romantic interest of course. Spill the beans!
 

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Well, i know of kino and EC as showing genuine interest, im not too sure about sexual interest, maybe someone with experience can help you out some more
 

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Too much CnF is too much pushing and not enough pulling.
 

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HandyAndy said:
Well, i know of kino and EC as showing genuine interest, im not too sure about sexual interest, maybe someone with experience can help you out some more
appreciate ur honesty, man!

and i also know u have at least moderate experience, so tell me one thing should you ever start flirting instantly or too soon with a girl or just wait for her to actually first vibe with u and then go for it when u think enough trust and comfort is built?

huffman, the question to u, too!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, somewhere in between :)
Basically the question boils down to between showing too much interest (too soon) and showing not enough interest (waiting too long).

My thoughts: the vibe is crucial to your success, but don't wait too long.
 

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According to various sources such as the DJ Bible and David D. The best way to show a girl you are interested is to tell a girl to give you her number or email. You have to be completely natural and say something like, "Hey, what's your number?" Do it when you are in a good conversation or ending one.

Doing it that way shows her that you are interested without you being a chump and actually telling her that you are interested in her.

What do you mean by "not giving yourself away too much?"
 
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