"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Showing a different personnality than I really have

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Lately i have been feeling like people percieve me in a different way to how i am.
I am someone who likes being challanged, i like the thrill you get when being at risk, facing the unknown.
Until 2 years ago I have been racing gokarts since i was 10 and the moment I put the helmet on and went on the track I was a different person, the one I really am.

What I want is have this mindset/personnality in everyday life, thing would be so different.
Even though things have improved a lot over the past years I feel like i am to nice, agreable a hesistant socially. On the track I didn't thinl twice about taking risks, not so long ago i hesitated to take part in a conversation because i was worried i'd say something stupid.

I don't know what it is but it feels like something is holding me back subconsciously and I want to get rid of that and be who i really am.

Writing this some lyrics from E-dubble's "Changed my mind":

"Live your life don't live a lie"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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