"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Showing a different personnality than I really have

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Lately i have been feeling like people percieve me in a different way to how i am.
I am someone who likes being challanged, i like the thrill you get when being at risk, facing the unknown.
Until 2 years ago I have been racing gokarts since i was 10 and the moment I put the helmet on and went on the track I was a different person, the one I really am.

What I want is have this mindset/personnality in everyday life, thing would be so different.
Even though things have improved a lot over the past years I feel like i am to nice, agreable a hesistant socially. On the track I didn't thinl twice about taking risks, not so long ago i hesitated to take part in a conversation because i was worried i'd say something stupid.

I don't know what it is but it feels like something is holding me back subconsciously and I want to get rid of that and be who i really am.

Writing this some lyrics from E-dubble's "Changed my mind":

"Live your life don't live a lie"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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