"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Showed interested in the past

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Hi,

I haven't made a thread in ages but well here i am with another new one.

There is this chick, I'd rate her a 8.5. She's hispanic and she's got a hott body with nice ass and boobs. She also has a good face and all. She's talkative and very outgoing. Me and her have some common things we like and things we both have that is not on the "Interests" list. Anyways, starting from about three or four weeks ago I have realized that (or must've been assuming alot) she's been glancing or staring at me a few times per day! There were times when i put my head down or when I look at another direction and when I look back, she's staring at me and then when she sees me looking at her she moves her eyes away from me. Anyways, like around this week (it was on monday or tuesday, i dont remember.) i decided to stare at her while she was sitting a couple of yards away from me and all of a sudden she turned around and gave a straight direct eye contact. I was like wtf how did she know??
Now for the past few weeks I've kept discussions with good friends and people at the forums here and they've told me that the reason why the girl kept glancing and staring at me was because she was trying to show interest in me. I thought she had interest in me until today... No eye contact, no nothing. There was nothing suspicious going on either like it did back three/four weeks ago! I feel kinda bad that she doesn't show interest in me anymore. She started going out with a dude like last friday, by the way.

Is this just some stupid over-analyzing with the staring/glancing or could it mean something?



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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So .. she did this eye contact thing even YESTERDAY ( TUESDAY) .. after she went out with that dude (FRIDAY)??
If so.. i dont think u should blame it on that.
Either way you're overanalyzing the situation. I do it too, so i can notice when other ppl do it.
Just make a move. Saying to wait till shes not goin out with that guy anymore is a BAD excuse.
 

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Heh i know, but i don't know... The way how it seemed like she was staring and glancing it really seemed unusual about her. Everytime i look back at her she looks somewhere else... It also feels like she has a few wingmen on the look-out for me. I mean i have a bad eye so i can't really be sure if the guys (her 'wingmen' aka good close friends) is looking at me. Don't worry though, they ain't gay ;) .
 

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She realized that you have noticed her stares and was probably waiting for you to make a move, but you didn't.
 

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I never gave her any stares before she stared at me. So it's her who gave the glances and stares at me first... I then thought she was interested, but after i saw her like grabbing and poking my friend in front of my face i had a big doubt.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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She was probably trying to make you jealous. You shouldn't have made assumptions and popped the question straight to her.
 

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I really don't think that's the reason why man. You see before I liked her, she used do alot more things to the friend than she does now.
 
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