"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Show me what conquers the hot women?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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mrgoodstuff

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"Hot Girls" are very cliquish and will do what the rest of the group does. If the rest of the group won't approve they might not do that.

So it's better to be part of their social circle, or a local celebrity. They might use a guy for some $ or favors. It doesn't help your case though. An independent man won't be treated as well because her group will be iffy about it.
 

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Dude...

Stop obsessing over that mythical hot woman that will fall head over heels for you because of your game.... super **** or wrapped Lambo.

Concentrate of finding a GOOD woman... Find that best friend. Someone who will love and care you. Guess what ?... She most likely not be a 9/10... She probably will be average. You won't find her attention whoring in a bar... She will be that sweet waitress... that cute classmate... your best friends sister.

Trust me..... In the long term you will be a happier man.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Nah. I smell an abuser of women, or a potential abuser. He needs to fix himself 1st before even considering adding a women or children, may God have mercy on their souls.
Well, he openly talks about doing hard time for threatening to kill a woman and harassing her for not wanting anything to do with him. So.........
 

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That too and others if you read between the lines of his posts
 

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Hot guys attract hot women, atleast in the very beginning. For a guy to even get his foot in the door with a 8+ he would have to be a 8+ himself, personality, game, social skills come after that but initially its the looks.
 

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Hot guys attract hot women, atleast in the very beginning. For a guy to even get his foot in the door with a 8+ he would have to be a 8+ himself, personality, game, social skills come after that but initially its the looks.
It's not that. Social approval is huge. You think frat boys are all 8+? They get jump-offs cause of their affiliation.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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By not being a sex offender like you.
 
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By not being a sex offender like you.
1. I'm not a sex offender

2. Weren't you just accused of raping a fat girl?

3. Mods, why is this allowed? I have to listen to little pu$$ies like this talk sh1t every 3 seconds, then I get warned or banned when I respond.
 

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Dude...

Stop obsessing over that mythical hot woman that will fall head over heels for you because of your game.... super **** or wrapped Lambo.

Concentrate of finding a GOOD woman... Find that best friend. Someone who will love and care you. Guess what ?... She most likely not be a 9/10... She probably will be average. You won't find her attention whoring in a bar... She will be that sweet waitress... that cute classmate... your best friends sister.

Trust me..... In the long term you will be a happier man.

Fuking spot on.. Its that HOT woman that will leave your head spinning, then you can come on SS crying like a little Bich, telling us all you didn't realise she was BDP!

Find somone with some qualities, someone who you can develop a healthy relationship with.

Who cares of she is a HB7...

On a side note... STAY away from the FATTIES!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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