"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Show me what conquers the hot women?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"Hot Girls" are very cliquish and will do what the rest of the group does. If the rest of the group won't approve they might not do that.

So it's better to be part of their social circle, or a local celebrity. They might use a guy for some $ or favors. It doesn't help your case though. An independent man won't be treated as well because her group will be iffy about it.
 

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Dude...

Stop obsessing over that mythical hot woman that will fall head over heels for you because of your game.... super **** or wrapped Lambo.

Concentrate of finding a GOOD woman... Find that best friend. Someone who will love and care you. Guess what ?... She most likely not be a 9/10... She probably will be average. You won't find her attention whoring in a bar... She will be that sweet waitress... that cute classmate... your best friends sister.

Trust me..... In the long term you will be a happier man.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nah. I smell an abuser of women, or a potential abuser. He needs to fix himself 1st before even considering adding a women or children, may God have mercy on their souls.
Well, he openly talks about doing hard time for threatening to kill a woman and harassing her for not wanting anything to do with him. So.........
 

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That too and others if you read between the lines of his posts
 

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Hot guys attract hot women, atleast in the very beginning. For a guy to even get his foot in the door with a 8+ he would have to be a 8+ himself, personality, game, social skills come after that but initially its the looks.
 

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Hot guys attract hot women, atleast in the very beginning. For a guy to even get his foot in the door with a 8+ he would have to be a 8+ himself, personality, game, social skills come after that but initially its the looks.
It's not that. Social approval is huge. You think frat boys are all 8+? They get jump-offs cause of their affiliation.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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By not being a sex offender like you.
 
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By not being a sex offender like you.
1. I'm not a sex offender

2. Weren't you just accused of raping a fat girl?

3. Mods, why is this allowed? I have to listen to little pu$$ies like this talk sh1t every 3 seconds, then I get warned or banned when I respond.
 

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Dude...

Stop obsessing over that mythical hot woman that will fall head over heels for you because of your game.... super **** or wrapped Lambo.

Concentrate of finding a GOOD woman... Find that best friend. Someone who will love and care you. Guess what ?... She most likely not be a 9/10... She probably will be average. You won't find her attention whoring in a bar... She will be that sweet waitress... that cute classmate... your best friends sister.

Trust me..... In the long term you will be a happier man.

Fuking spot on.. Its that HOT woman that will leave your head spinning, then you can come on SS crying like a little Bich, telling us all you didn't realise she was BDP!

Find somone with some qualities, someone who you can develop a healthy relationship with.

Who cares of she is a HB7...

On a side note... STAY away from the FATTIES!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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