"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Shoulder to Hip Ratio?

HateOnMe

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http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip408.htm
Well the article said something about the attractiveness of a male body is due to his
Shoulder to hip ratio of 0.7 or 0.8. How do you determine this ratio? And how do you do it. Oh yeah Im basically new here so Hey wassup.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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dude this is overcomplicating things big time. just go for more muscle mass and less bodyfat, why should anyone worry about silly numbers
 

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Fair enuff

Eh works for me. haha.
 

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He's got a point. That's the V shaped Mesomorph look your talkin about. Yes supposedly it does look more attractive for some reason. If youre like, ecto skinny like me building up your shoulders and chest is not a bad idea.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just make sure your shoulders are wider than your hips and you shouldn't go far wrong!
 

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Originally posted by HateOnMe
http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip408.htm
Well the article said something about the attractiveness of a male body is due to his
Shoulder to hip ratio of 0.7 or 0.8. How do you determine this ratio? And how do you do it. Oh yeah Im basically new here so Hey wassup.
Im assuming you measure your shoulders in inches, then divide your waist measurements in inches by your shoulder measurement.
 
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