Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Shoulder to Hip Ratio?

HateOnMe

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http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip408.htm
Well the article said something about the attractiveness of a male body is due to his
Shoulder to hip ratio of 0.7 or 0.8. How do you determine this ratio? And how do you do it. Oh yeah Im basically new here so Hey wassup.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dude this is overcomplicating things big time. just go for more muscle mass and less bodyfat, why should anyone worry about silly numbers
 

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Fair enuff

Eh works for me. haha.
 

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He's got a point. That's the V shaped Mesomorph look your talkin about. Yes supposedly it does look more attractive for some reason. If youre like, ecto skinny like me building up your shoulders and chest is not a bad idea.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just make sure your shoulders are wider than your hips and you shouldn't go far wrong!
 

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Originally posted by HateOnMe
http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip408.htm
Well the article said something about the attractiveness of a male body is due to his
Shoulder to hip ratio of 0.7 or 0.8. How do you determine this ratio? And how do you do it. Oh yeah Im basically new here so Hey wassup.
Im assuming you measure your shoulders in inches, then divide your waist measurements in inches by your shoulder measurement.
 
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