"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Shoulder to Hip Ratio?

HateOnMe

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http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip408.htm
Well the article said something about the attractiveness of a male body is due to his
Shoulder to hip ratio of 0.7 or 0.8. How do you determine this ratio? And how do you do it. Oh yeah Im basically new here so Hey wassup.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Double

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dude this is overcomplicating things big time. just go for more muscle mass and less bodyfat, why should anyone worry about silly numbers
 

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Fair enuff

Eh works for me. haha.
 

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He's got a point. That's the V shaped Mesomorph look your talkin about. Yes supposedly it does look more attractive for some reason. If youre like, ecto skinny like me building up your shoulders and chest is not a bad idea.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just make sure your shoulders are wider than your hips and you shouldn't go far wrong!
 

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Originally posted by HateOnMe
http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip408.htm
Well the article said something about the attractiveness of a male body is due to his
Shoulder to hip ratio of 0.7 or 0.8. How do you determine this ratio? And how do you do it. Oh yeah Im basically new here so Hey wassup.
Im assuming you measure your shoulders in inches, then divide your waist measurements in inches by your shoulder measurement.
 
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