Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Shoulder Tendinitis

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i started feeling some minor pain in my left shoulder some weeks ago, and the pain started to increase this week, i notice it when i sleep and when i do shoulder and chest exercises (for example when i need to raise my arms above my shoulders with the weights). triceps, biceps and back i can do them ok no problem, and some chest exercises too but not all of them. i dont want to stop training because i was getting some improvements. what i think it happened was before i went on vacation for 2 weeks i was lifting big, but then i stopped and when i started again i continued to hit it hard, i think i ****ed up and should have taken it more lightly. now im in a situation that i dont know what to do, i tried ice but its not working. anyone have any tips to give me?

thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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do a search on MrR's posts, he posted some good stuff recently about shoulder stretches

also search for 'DC broomstick stretch' (it may not be on this site though)

avoid exercises which cause you discomfort for now.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
i started feeling some minor pain in my left shoulder some weeks ago, and the pain started to increase this week, i notice it when i sleep and when i do shoulder and chest exercises (for example when i need to raise my arms above my shoulders with the weights). triceps, biceps and back i can do them ok no problem, and some chest exercises too but not all of them. i dont want to stop training because i was getting some improvements. what i think it happened was before i went on vacation for 2 weeks i was lifting big, but then i stopped and when i started again i continued to hit it hard, i think i ****ed up and should have taken it more lightly. now im in a situation that i dont know what to do, i tried ice but its not working. anyone have any tips to give me?

thanks
I have had the same problem and its pretty simple to fix. First you have to take it easy for a week. Stick to cardio but try not to use your shoulder. Try to keep it your arm low and to your side until the pain subsides. Put ice one it every night, it doesn't really help with the pain but it should help with the inflammation.
This is the most important part, make sure you are sleeping on your back and never on your left shoulder. This will take a week to kick in, and I would wait about two weeks before your doing training that would have previously hurt your shoulder. Also, try eating pineapple for awhile it has natural anti-inflammatory properties.
Let me know if it helps...
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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