"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Shoulder Tendinitis

NeedToImprove

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i started feeling some minor pain in my left shoulder some weeks ago, and the pain started to increase this week, i notice it when i sleep and when i do shoulder and chest exercises (for example when i need to raise my arms above my shoulders with the weights). triceps, biceps and back i can do them ok no problem, and some chest exercises too but not all of them. i dont want to stop training because i was getting some improvements. what i think it happened was before i went on vacation for 2 weeks i was lifting big, but then i stopped and when i started again i continued to hit it hard, i think i ****ed up and should have taken it more lightly. now im in a situation that i dont know what to do, i tried ice but its not working. anyone have any tips to give me?

thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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do a search on MrR's posts, he posted some good stuff recently about shoulder stretches

also search for 'DC broomstick stretch' (it may not be on this site though)

avoid exercises which cause you discomfort for now.
 

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NeedToImprove said:
i started feeling some minor pain in my left shoulder some weeks ago, and the pain started to increase this week, i notice it when i sleep and when i do shoulder and chest exercises (for example when i need to raise my arms above my shoulders with the weights). triceps, biceps and back i can do them ok no problem, and some chest exercises too but not all of them. i dont want to stop training because i was getting some improvements. what i think it happened was before i went on vacation for 2 weeks i was lifting big, but then i stopped and when i started again i continued to hit it hard, i think i ****ed up and should have taken it more lightly. now im in a situation that i dont know what to do, i tried ice but its not working. anyone have any tips to give me?

thanks
I have had the same problem and its pretty simple to fix. First you have to take it easy for a week. Stick to cardio but try not to use your shoulder. Try to keep it your arm low and to your side until the pain subsides. Put ice one it every night, it doesn't really help with the pain but it should help with the inflammation.
This is the most important part, make sure you are sleeping on your back and never on your left shoulder. This will take a week to kick in, and I would wait about two weeks before your doing training that would have previously hurt your shoulder. Also, try eating pineapple for awhile it has natural anti-inflammatory properties.
Let me know if it helps...
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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