My motto is simple: "Don't be a hypocrite." I have WAAAAY too many girls that are friends to give a hoot about if a girl I'm dating has a lot of guy friends. For one, having been in the role of "the guy friend who secretly has a crush on my girl friend," I know the chances of those other guys perking my girl's interest is next to nil since most guys in that position can't actually figure out what they need to do to transition over to the "boyfriend" side of things. Second, girls really CAN have guys that they only see as platonic MUCH better than guys can do with their girl "friends." And three, a man that's confident knows that, should she start falling for one of these guy friends of hers, that he can always bounce back and find someone else - not having that fear of loss or fear of not finding someone else makes you more secure in your dealings with women who have guy friends. Ironically, it's having this confidence that causes her to want to hold on to you even more.