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Should your gf have male friends

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What's your opinion on girls having male friends? Even guys that she met before you met her?
I don't have to sound like an AFC, and tell her to cut off all her male friends.
 

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what if she where to hang out with a guy friend?
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Maybe it's because I'm older. But I've been single for almost 8 years now, have several women I see, one I really get on well with for over two years. They all have men in their lives.

My main plate is a knockout. And she often talks to and occasionally even sees the guy she was with before me. But she's not going back to him and has no interest in f*cking him.
 

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My motto is simple: "Don't be a hypocrite." I have WAAAAY too many girls that are friends to give a hoot about if a girl I'm dating has a lot of guy friends. For one, having been in the role of "the guy friend who secretly has a crush on my girl friend," I know the chances of those other guys perking my girl's interest is next to nil since most guys in that position can't actually figure out what they need to do to transition over to the "boyfriend" side of things. Second, girls really CAN have guys that they only see as platonic MUCH better than guys can do with their girl "friends." And three, a man that's confident knows that, should she start falling for one of these guy friends of hers, that he can always bounce back and find someone else - not having that fear of loss or fear of not finding someone else makes you more secure in your dealings with women who have guy friends. Ironically, it's having this confidence that causes her to want to hold on to you even more.
 

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If you're the man and she knows that you have nothing to fear. Actually if you are truly a man ,you never think that somebody else is going to steal your girl but the opposite, your girl starts to fear that she's going to lose you.
 

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I let her have one or two male friends or guys she talks to regularly, but I dont allow any thing that looks like romantic/sexual stuff: no one on one dinners, no going to a club/party just them, no touching, no flirting in any form. And I just allow this if it happens from time to time, not on a regular basis.

That's my boundary.
 

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Me and buddy were just talking about this. His girlfriend currently has this guy friend who goes on trips with her and her girlfriends and this one guy. You know this guy is smashing one of them, if not all lol
 

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Maybe it's because I'm older. But I've been single for almost 8 years now, have several women I see, one I really get on well with for over two years. They all have men in their lives.

My main plate is a knockout. And she often talks to and occasionally even sees the guy she was with before me. But she's not going back to him and has no interest in f*cking him.
You are the biggest hypocrite, you are telling to dump my gf on the other post because some guy asked her to go for dinner while your girlfriend is still being friends with her exbf. Your exgf is probably ****ing her ex-bf behind your back. grow some balls and dump her first before posting useless advice.
 

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You are the biggest hypocrite, you are telling to dump my gf on the other post because some guy asked her to go for dinner while your girlfriend is still being friends with her exbf. Your exgf is probably ****ing her ex-bf behind your back. grow some balls and dump her first before posting useless advice.
*mainplate does not equal girlfriend
 

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what makes you think its not? are you him. Even if its not, who would tolereate that ****
He said he's been single for over 8 years in the post u quoted lol. He's not emotionally invested in her like you are with ur slutty gf
 
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He said he's been single for over 8 years in the post u quoted lol. He's not emotionally invested in her like you are with ur slutty gf
Why are you getting so emotionally hurt? okay, I been single for 8 years too. whats your point? before you speak please have some common sense and stop posting useless information. and also let the guy answered, you're not him
 

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lol dude
Why are you getting so emotionally hurt? okay, I been single for 8 years too. whats your point? before you speak please have some common sense and stop posting useless information. and also let the guy answered you're not him
lol dude u sound like a a guy that's been backed up against a wall. I been in ur shoes. Posted on here about a girl I was with. They told me she's a slutty girl that will cause me emotional distress. I ignored them. Several months down the line They were right about everything. Down the words she would say. Woman behaviors are predictable. All of us know there's something up with ur gf because we've been experienced the same situations. If she was crazy in love and u know she wouldn't cheat on u trust me u would know it
 

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You are the biggest hypocrite, you are telling to dump my gf on the other post because some guy asked her to go for dinner while your girlfriend is still being friends with her exbf. Your exgf is probably ****ing her ex-bf behind your back. grow some balls and dump her first before posting useless advice.
YOU said the tutor was going to hit on her. And I said that if you know then she does too. And yet, she still wants to go. So she wants to get hit on.

I know the guy my girl sees. We travel the same circles. I know she's not interested. He knows he's done.

Enjoy your soon to be ex-girl.
 
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YOU said the tutor was going to hit on her. And I said that if you know then she does too. And yet, she still wants to go. So she wants to get hit on.

I know the guy my girl sees. We travel the same circles. I know she's not interested. He knows he's done.

Enjoy your soon to be ex-girl.
Bro, why are you getting mad when your gf is currently talking to your ex and ****ing him. lol I feel for you men. atleast I got 2 girls.
 

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First of all tictac, you're posting useless information when your gf is seeing your exbf. who here will actually tolerate that ****? only a loser like you
She does see the guy.

Declarative reality ('because I said so') is for ninny bitches like you. You don't know sh*t.

Yours is giving the tutor a *******. See how that works?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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