"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should your gf have male friends

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What's your opinion on girls having male friends? Even guys that she met before you met her?
I don't have to sound like an AFC, and tell her to cut off all her male friends.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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what if she where to hang out with a guy friend?
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Maybe it's because I'm older. But I've been single for almost 8 years now, have several women I see, one I really get on well with for over two years. They all have men in their lives.

My main plate is a knockout. And she often talks to and occasionally even sees the guy she was with before me. But she's not going back to him and has no interest in f*cking him.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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My motto is simple: "Don't be a hypocrite." I have WAAAAY too many girls that are friends to give a hoot about if a girl I'm dating has a lot of guy friends. For one, having been in the role of "the guy friend who secretly has a crush on my girl friend," I know the chances of those other guys perking my girl's interest is next to nil since most guys in that position can't actually figure out what they need to do to transition over to the "boyfriend" side of things. Second, girls really CAN have guys that they only see as platonic MUCH better than guys can do with their girl "friends." And three, a man that's confident knows that, should she start falling for one of these guy friends of hers, that he can always bounce back and find someone else - not having that fear of loss or fear of not finding someone else makes you more secure in your dealings with women who have guy friends. Ironically, it's having this confidence that causes her to want to hold on to you even more.
 

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If you're the man and she knows that you have nothing to fear. Actually if you are truly a man ,you never think that somebody else is going to steal your girl but the opposite, your girl starts to fear that she's going to lose you.
 

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I let her have one or two male friends or guys she talks to regularly, but I dont allow any thing that looks like romantic/sexual stuff: no one on one dinners, no going to a club/party just them, no touching, no flirting in any form. And I just allow this if it happens from time to time, not on a regular basis.

That's my boundary.
 

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Me and buddy were just talking about this. His girlfriend currently has this guy friend who goes on trips with her and her girlfriends and this one guy. You know this guy is smashing one of them, if not all lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Maybe it's because I'm older. But I've been single for almost 8 years now, have several women I see, one I really get on well with for over two years. They all have men in their lives.

My main plate is a knockout. And she often talks to and occasionally even sees the guy she was with before me. But she's not going back to him and has no interest in f*cking him.
You are the biggest hypocrite, you are telling to dump my gf on the other post because some guy asked her to go for dinner while your girlfriend is still being friends with her exbf. Your exgf is probably ****ing her ex-bf behind your back. grow some balls and dump her first before posting useless advice.
 

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You are the biggest hypocrite, you are telling to dump my gf on the other post because some guy asked her to go for dinner while your girlfriend is still being friends with her exbf. Your exgf is probably ****ing her ex-bf behind your back. grow some balls and dump her first before posting useless advice.
*mainplate does not equal girlfriend
 

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what makes you think its not? are you him. Even if its not, who would tolereate that ****
He said he's been single for over 8 years in the post u quoted lol. He's not emotionally invested in her like you are with ur slutty gf
 
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He said he's been single for over 8 years in the post u quoted lol. He's not emotionally invested in her like you are with ur slutty gf
Why are you getting so emotionally hurt? okay, I been single for 8 years too. whats your point? before you speak please have some common sense and stop posting useless information. and also let the guy answered, you're not him
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lol dude
Why are you getting so emotionally hurt? okay, I been single for 8 years too. whats your point? before you speak please have some common sense and stop posting useless information. and also let the guy answered you're not him
lol dude u sound like a a guy that's been backed up against a wall. I been in ur shoes. Posted on here about a girl I was with. They told me she's a slutty girl that will cause me emotional distress. I ignored them. Several months down the line They were right about everything. Down the words she would say. Woman behaviors are predictable. All of us know there's something up with ur gf because we've been experienced the same situations. If she was crazy in love and u know she wouldn't cheat on u trust me u would know it
 

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You are the biggest hypocrite, you are telling to dump my gf on the other post because some guy asked her to go for dinner while your girlfriend is still being friends with her exbf. Your exgf is probably ****ing her ex-bf behind your back. grow some balls and dump her first before posting useless advice.
YOU said the tutor was going to hit on her. And I said that if you know then she does too. And yet, she still wants to go. So she wants to get hit on.

I know the guy my girl sees. We travel the same circles. I know she's not interested. He knows he's done.

Enjoy your soon to be ex-girl.
 
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YOU said the tutor was going to hit on her. And I said that if you know then she does too. And yet, she still wants to go. So she wants to get hit on.

I know the guy my girl sees. We travel the same circles. I know she's not interested. He knows he's done.

Enjoy your soon to be ex-girl.
Bro, why are you getting mad when your gf is currently talking to your ex and ****ing him. lol I feel for you men. atleast I got 2 girls.
 

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First of all tictac, you're posting useless information when your gf is seeing your exbf. who here will actually tolerate that ****? only a loser like you
She does see the guy.

Declarative reality ('because I said so') is for ninny bitches like you. You don't know sh*t.

Yours is giving the tutor a *******. See how that works?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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