"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should You Tell Her???

Should You Tell her about Your Open Relationships

  • No, she doesn't need to know.

    Votes: 2 33.3%
  • Yes, best to be Honest.

    Votes: 3 50.0%
  • You'll never have a girl friend.

    Votes: 1 16.7%
  • What's an Open Relationship?

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    6
  • Poll closed .

Chosen1

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Hey, everybody I plan to have a girlfriend soon, but I don't want oneitis. so my question is should you tell her you want an open relationship or no. This is probably been posted before but what the hell.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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escobar04

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no man, its not necessary to be honest with a girl

you are the man dog, so do whatever you want, her opinion should matter not
 

Chosen1

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Thanks for the replies,that one bothered me for a minute.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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