Chosen1
Master Don Juan
Hey, everybody I plan to have a girlfriend soon, but I don't want oneitis. so my question is should you tell her you want an open relationship or no. This is probably been posted before but what the hell.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.