"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should you tape it to avoid a rape accusation charge?

FieldReportGuy7

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I'm beginning to ponder whether I should tape all my sessions in order to avoid getting accused of rape.

Is this a good idea?

Sh*t, I know you can get charge for invasion of privacy, but I'd rather take that than spend 25 years of my life in jail for freakin crime I did not committ.

Stuff like this can happen these days, its not new.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mikeyb

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I'm not a lawyer but I don't think taping it would be admissible evidence unless you informed the girl beforehand that you were taping her.
 

Quiksilver

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If she acts weird in the bedroom then ditch her.

If not, then you have nothing to worry about. Of course there are always exceptions and laws are more pro-female than ever now, however worrying about being charged with rape with every girl I'm with is just a headache.

edit: If you live in Sweden, then a video (no audio) recording may not be such a bad idea.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SamTheHobit

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This is why you should have one sexual parthner.
 

WhitePimp

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If you're getting into this situation frequently enough to fear rape charges, maybe it's time to tone down the sexual performance, no?
 

SamTheHobit

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j0n24

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I agree though if things start going on the decline and you suspect that your little plate is beginning to bang someone else or hell if its your wife and you feel shes about to divorce your ass for some ridiculous reason.

I would say video tape the sex. I think even if it IS illegal she would change her tune very fast if she was throwing out "Rape," IF everyone in the court room was about to see her having sex.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Burroughs

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Good idea actually,

Just make sure you have the best lawyer in town on retainer; should **** ever hit the fan he can drag his 20,000 dollar suit and intimidate whatever ambulance chaser hack she has hired....
 

mpimpin

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I have a friend who was accused of rape, he filmed it I dunno if the video was consensual but after a lot of money spent on a lawyer and having the tape he was cleared.
 

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horaholic

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mpimpin said:
I have a friend who was accused of rape, he filmed it I dunno if the video was consensual but after a lot of money spent on a lawyer and having the tape he was cleared.
Holy Christ! Did he sue the bytch for lawyer fees for wrongful accusation?
 

mpimpin

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horaholic said:
Holy Christ! Did he sue the bytch for lawyer fees for wrongful accusation?
Nope I think him and his family were ready to be done with the scandal. It was a mixed race small town issue. Big mess
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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