"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should you tape it to avoid a rape accusation charge?

FieldReportGuy7

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I'm beginning to ponder whether I should tape all my sessions in order to avoid getting accused of rape.

Is this a good idea?

Sh*t, I know you can get charge for invasion of privacy, but I'd rather take that than spend 25 years of my life in jail for freakin crime I did not committ.

Stuff like this can happen these days, its not new.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mikeyb

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I'm not a lawyer but I don't think taping it would be admissible evidence unless you informed the girl beforehand that you were taping her.
 

Quiksilver

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If she acts weird in the bedroom then ditch her.

If not, then you have nothing to worry about. Of course there are always exceptions and laws are more pro-female than ever now, however worrying about being charged with rape with every girl I'm with is just a headache.

edit: If you live in Sweden, then a video (no audio) recording may not be such a bad idea.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SamTheHobit

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This is why you should have one sexual parthner.
 

WhitePimp

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If you're getting into this situation frequently enough to fear rape charges, maybe it's time to tone down the sexual performance, no?
 

SamTheHobit

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j0n24

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I agree though if things start going on the decline and you suspect that your little plate is beginning to bang someone else or hell if its your wife and you feel shes about to divorce your ass for some ridiculous reason.

I would say video tape the sex. I think even if it IS illegal she would change her tune very fast if she was throwing out "Rape," IF everyone in the court room was about to see her having sex.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Burroughs

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Good idea actually,

Just make sure you have the best lawyer in town on retainer; should **** ever hit the fan he can drag his 20,000 dollar suit and intimidate whatever ambulance chaser hack she has hired....
 

mpimpin

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I have a friend who was accused of rape, he filmed it I dunno if the video was consensual but after a lot of money spent on a lawyer and having the tape he was cleared.
 

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horaholic

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mpimpin said:
I have a friend who was accused of rape, he filmed it I dunno if the video was consensual but after a lot of money spent on a lawyer and having the tape he was cleared.
Holy Christ! Did he sue the bytch for lawyer fees for wrongful accusation?
 

mpimpin

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horaholic said:
Holy Christ! Did he sue the bytch for lawyer fees for wrongful accusation?
Nope I think him and his family were ready to be done with the scandal. It was a mixed race small town issue. Big mess
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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