"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should you tame the C/F and game when becoming more serious?

jnMissouri

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I’ve noticed with a few of my relationships over the years that (just as DD said in DYD) once you get more serious and aren’t just dating, you can’t do the C/F all the time and use game constantly because she will tire of that.

I’ve noticed with a new girl that although she used to tell me she loved my C/F now it seems like when I tease her about her nails, etc. she doesn’t seem to like it and stops responding. Yet when I talk to her about normal stuff or just text her that I’m thinking about her or to arrange the details of a trip we’re planning on taking together, she is very texty.

So what’s my question? Is there a point where you have to tone this stuff down and be more normal? Are there any other signs that you’ve reached that point so you don’t stop using game prematurely?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

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