"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should you tame the C/F and game when becoming more serious?

jnMissouri

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I’ve noticed with a few of my relationships over the years that (just as DD said in DYD) once you get more serious and aren’t just dating, you can’t do the C/F all the time and use game constantly because she will tire of that.

I’ve noticed with a new girl that although she used to tell me she loved my C/F now it seems like when I tease her about her nails, etc. she doesn’t seem to like it and stops responding. Yet when I talk to her about normal stuff or just text her that I’m thinking about her or to arrange the details of a trip we’re planning on taking together, she is very texty.

So what’s my question? Is there a point where you have to tone this stuff down and be more normal? Are there any other signs that you’ve reached that point so you don’t stop using game prematurely?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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