Should you spin plates within your 'circle'?

[Tomo]

I've currently started dating one - hooked up etc etc. At the same time, I'm leading on another, kiss closed another the other night all the while flirting with a few more. Problem is they're all in my year in my degree I'm studying.

Do you guys think it is best I pull back and date elsewhere? My worry is if word gets out and how that'd affect me down the track especially as my profession is a very 'someone who knows someone gets a job' occupation.

 

[Groverz]

Id say if it worry's you that much, and you seem to know the situation better than us, I would try to avoid it. Also never know when you end up spinning 2 that happen to be friends, then **** can blow up.

 

[Bacious]

I've currently started dating one - hooked up etc etc. At the same time, I'm leading on another, kiss closed another the other night all the while flirting with a few more. Problem is they're all in my year in my degree I'm studying.

So you're going to have to deal with the potential consequences of this for years to come? It really doesn't sound like a good long term thing to be doing but you know more about the situation than we do.

You have to realise that "word getting out" consists of two girls that already know each other having a little chat. It sounds like you know that you're skating on thin ice - all I can suggest is that you consider the likely outcomes of you keeping up the Hugh Hefner act within the same circle.

 

[Krueg]

Women are not men. They don't think like we do. Women only want a guy when other girls want him. They want a guy who is in demand.
They are not jealous of other girls.

 

[Mr Wright]

It's all fun and games until one of them gets feelings for you then she'll smear your name around campus.