Should you make a woman regret turning you down?

[plumber]

nope. don't give it another thought.

your energy will darken if you spend time worry about this. dark energy brings more dark to you.

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Maybe she is just not smart, and can not see/figure out that your a good deal. Can you forgive her for being not smart.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

As Confucious once said:

"Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves. One for your intended. The other for yourself."

 

[parabellum]

My take is that OP’s wound is still fresh. That it’s Ok. Give yourself time to come to terms with your frustration, and then move on, by that time you’ll think what you wrote is just silly.

 

[MatureDJ]

Is it good fuel to becoming more successful than you were?

Make her feel like she missed an opportunity?

Or is this holding on to her and in a way she still holds some power over you?

Sometimes I get in a mood to tell a chick blowing me off, "are you sure you want to throw away this opportunity"?

 

[TheGambino]

FYI: that would be a really dumb thing to do.
If you have to convince a woman to give you a try-out, she's not invested enough.

You can’t negotiate attraction like that.

 

[TheGambino]

Use the fuel of rejection to become a better man. Not to impress your ex fling girlfriend wife whatever. But that will be a byproduct

 

[Salvation]

Well, i guess the 'feeling not enough' for a woman you like is a thing every man goes through, with the accompanied pain and then motivation to eg hit the gym

My biggest motivation for years was this one girl that i fell in love with i never even kissed.. in reality i think these girls seem superimportant for a few weeks and then fall into the background
- and now thinking about it, i think it would be cool to **** this girl in school i had a crush on 20 years ago - i guess, or perhaps not because she looks totally different, but still

Don't know if women or top 5% hot guys also have this but well

 

[Lotus Effect]

Well, i guess the 'feeling not enough' for a woman you like is a thing every man goes through, with the accompanied pain and then motivation to eg hit the gym

My biggest motivation for years was this one girl that i fell in love with i never even kissed.. in reality i think these girls seem superimportant for a few weeks and then fall into the background
- and now thinking about it, i think it would be cool to **** this girl in school i had a crush on 20 years ago - i guess, or perhaps not because she looks totally different, but still

Don't know if women or top 5% hot guys also have this but well

That's pretty much my story Sal.

The girl that got me here in Portugal, was my high school platonic crush.

Met the chick in 01. AFC. Learned game in 09. Kissed her in 2010. She moved to Portugal. She went back to Brazil in 2023. I'm at the top of my game. Banged her brains out.

I went full circle, 22 years later.

Moved to Portugal because of the possibility of relationship. I was still the boy from 01. Did not last a month.

And then back to square one.

Very educational.

 

[Vanderdonck]

Is it good fuel to becoming more successful than you were?

Make her feel like she missed an opportunity?

Or is this holding on to her and in a way she still holds some power over you?

It's the last one. Let it go. Not everyone was meant to smash one another.