I am sick of calling a girl the first time and having to leave a message. They usually don't call back. I am much better talking to a person than a machine. From now on, I am going to ask when is a good time to call and call at that time. If they don't answer the first time, I'll call back at a similar time. If they still don't answer, I am throwing away the number. I now believe that they are qualifying you by your message. Remember that we are qualifying them, so don't leave a message. Any thoughts or opinions?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Should you leave a message the first time?
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