Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Should you ask you girl to help you out? Need Advice

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1) Does asking your girl to help you out with your homework have a negative affect on interest level?


2) Does asking a girl to help you out on your resume and your cover letter have a negative affect on interest level?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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alphawolfx

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homework, no

resume, yes

although it really doesn't decide whether you're getting with her or not, the work issue says that you are a loser who can't get your s.hit together, while homework is just homework
 

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Let me rephrase the question...Should you let your girlfriend help you out with these things and what affect will it have on interest level?
 

Centaurion

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Originally posted by alphawolfx
although it really doesn't decide whether you're getting with her or not, the work issue says that you are a loser who can't get your s.hit together, while homework is just homework
i second that
 
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