"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should you ask you girl to help you out? Need Advice

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1) Does asking your girl to help you out with your homework have a negative affect on interest level?


2) Does asking a girl to help you out on your resume and your cover letter have a negative affect on interest level?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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alphawolfx

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homework, no

resume, yes

although it really doesn't decide whether you're getting with her or not, the work issue says that you are a loser who can't get your s.hit together, while homework is just homework
 

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Let me rephrase the question...Should you let your girlfriend help you out with these things and what affect will it have on interest level?
 

Centaurion

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Originally posted by alphawolfx
although it really doesn't decide whether you're getting with her or not, the work issue says that you are a loser who can't get your s.hit together, while homework is just homework
i second that
 
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