You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What do you mean by that?Do whatever the **** you want to do. That’s what.
Have a no bullshyt policy. Many women won't make the cut as it's their primary form off navigate .
We should atleast make this one a serious matter since it talks about depression and suicide.You need to have nothing better to do but put up with drama
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
It's weakness. But a dude that thinks he loves a woman that's mentally abusing him, it will lead to weakening esteem and possible self hate...We should atleast make this one a serious matter since it talks about depression and suicide.
What are your thoughts on suicide?
Good point, I'm beginning to understand italian women because of this.Italian women are what happens when narcism, hypocrisy, a short temper, insecurity, sadism and delusion come together in a woman. Most of them tend to be drama hungry but also have massive egos due to the fact that their men pamper them. I cannot think of a worse nationality of women to go after or even a worse heritage. The reason some East Coast cities suck for dating is due to a high Italian population in regards to the women. NYC is only good if you are in Manhattan or Brooklyn where the younger whites and transplants.
This:What are you thoughts on this?
is what I mean by thatDo whatever the **** you want to do. That’s what.
Ok.This:
is what I mean by that
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
But it makes sense when most of the DJs here agree about their perception about Italian Women.You can’t just generalize millions of people based off one individual. It doesn’t work that way. It also matters how you are in conjunction with them. I for instance find Greek bitches absolutely crazy. Every single one of them I’ve dealt with ended up being nuts, their sisters included (brothers were cool if they had any).
But some other dude probably loves Greek chicks just because they match him so well. Sure there are behaviors that you can generalize somewhat, but to say that they cause ‘this’ result with people all across the board is ridiculous because you aren’t considering who the other party is.
I find that Italian women usually have bigger tits than women of other nationalities. But I got nothing to say of their personalities. Seriously, you’re generalizing all of us now.But it makes sense when most of the DJs here agree about their perception about Italian Women.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ok ill stop it from here.I find that Italian women usually have bigger tits than women of other nationalities. But I got nothing to say of their personalities. Seriously, you’re generalizing all of us now.
Really, it's interesting to know that.Jewish women are a lot worse than Italian women.
You guys need to get out of the house more.
Thanks for your input coming from the other side. This makes our judgment on Italian women balanced."Most djs" my arse.
You've got drakeisfire goodgao and his multiple other usernames who has been rejected by Italian girls going on a crusade to cuss them. That's just his usual game of playing the race card, calling girls racist.
So you say something enough times, and it becomes the truth.
This despite him having fvcking zero experience with these girls, whom i can tell you are some of the best women that i've ever dated.
Place really is the blind leading the blind at times. One would be better off not reading such brainrot.
As someone who has been blamed for someone else's threats of suicide, it's complete bullsh!t to blame someone else for actions done to oneself. There's A LOT of other solutions before killing oneself.I heard that his girlfriend Asia Argento was being blamed on Anthony Bourdain's suicide.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.