I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What do you mean by that?Do whatever the **** you want to do. That’s what.
Have a no bullshyt policy. Many women won't make the cut as it's their primary form off navigate .
We should atleast make this one a serious matter since it talks about depression and suicide.You need to have nothing better to do but put up with drama
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
It's weakness. But a dude that thinks he loves a woman that's mentally abusing him, it will lead to weakening esteem and possible self hate...We should atleast make this one a serious matter since it talks about depression and suicide.
What are your thoughts on suicide?
Good point, I'm beginning to understand italian women because of this.Italian women are what happens when narcism, hypocrisy, a short temper, insecurity, sadism and delusion come together in a woman. Most of them tend to be drama hungry but also have massive egos due to the fact that their men pamper them. I cannot think of a worse nationality of women to go after or even a worse heritage. The reason some East Coast cities suck for dating is due to a high Italian population in regards to the women. NYC is only good if you are in Manhattan or Brooklyn where the younger whites and transplants.
This:What are you thoughts on this?
is what I mean by thatDo whatever the **** you want to do. That’s what.
Ok.This:
is what I mean by that
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
But it makes sense when most of the DJs here agree about their perception about Italian Women.You can’t just generalize millions of people based off one individual. It doesn’t work that way. It also matters how you are in conjunction with them. I for instance find Greek bitches absolutely crazy. Every single one of them I’ve dealt with ended up being nuts, their sisters included (brothers were cool if they had any).
But some other dude probably loves Greek chicks just because they match him so well. Sure there are behaviors that you can generalize somewhat, but to say that they cause ‘this’ result with people all across the board is ridiculous because you aren’t considering who the other party is.
I find that Italian women usually have bigger tits than women of other nationalities. But I got nothing to say of their personalities. Seriously, you’re generalizing all of us now.But it makes sense when most of the DJs here agree about their perception about Italian Women.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ok ill stop it from here.I find that Italian women usually have bigger tits than women of other nationalities. But I got nothing to say of their personalities. Seriously, you’re generalizing all of us now.
Really, it's interesting to know that.Jewish women are a lot worse than Italian women.
You guys need to get out of the house more.
Thanks for your input coming from the other side. This makes our judgment on Italian women balanced."Most djs" my arse.
You've got drakeisfire goodgao and his multiple other usernames who has been rejected by Italian girls going on a crusade to cuss them. That's just his usual game of playing the race card, calling girls racist.
So you say something enough times, and it becomes the truth.
This despite him having fvcking zero experience with these girls, whom i can tell you are some of the best women that i've ever dated.
Place really is the blind leading the blind at times. One would be better off not reading such brainrot.
As someone who has been blamed for someone else's threats of suicide, it's complete bullsh!t to blame someone else for actions done to oneself. There's A LOT of other solutions before killing oneself.I heard that his girlfriend Asia Argento was being blamed on Anthony Bourdain's suicide.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.