"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Should this bother me?

A

amnbyrd

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 21, 2007
Messages
191
Reaction score
0
Location
Texas for now
Ok so yesterday me and my gf of just a few weeks went out to hang and see a movie. Well towards the end I got mad over some things she does that I dont like and we just about broke up though we fixed things and she said she promised that we were good.
So after I dropped her off at her house she had a gf of hers pick her up-they ended up just riding around and a lil while later went to hang at an old friends place. The friend is 18 and just got her own apartment. They ended up drinking and her friend she came there with had to leave so it was almost 1am and she called me to pick her up. I get there and it was my gf, her girl, her girls bf and the girls bro. I could tell they had been drinking. She said she'd had 2 beers and she was damn hyper. So my ? is should this whole thing bother me? I already told her I didnt feel comfortable with her drinking around other guys though she said they're old friends and she rarely drinks. Shes only 17 btw.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

G

Gangster Of Love

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2002
Messages
2,574
Reaction score
66
Age
52
Location
Los Angeles
Tell her you will turn her in to the authorities. She is 17 and is not of legal drinking age.
 
A

amnbyrd

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 21, 2007
Messages
191
Reaction score
0
Location
Texas for now
Are you serious? lol
Oh I forgot to mention that when I picked her up the thing that seemed sketchy to me is with most her friends shes really eager for me to meet them but last night she just got in my car and kinda rushed us away I mean her friends came over and her gf said she really wanted to meet me but as the guys were talking my girl kinda pushed them away-she was like Go away he doesnt wanna meet you(in her hyper/kinda embarrassed tone of voice) She said that the girls bf and her bro were the only ppl there.
But today I txted her something I had just read on here-something along the lines of "Look I think I overreacted to you drinking, and I think Im taking this relationship a bit too seriously I mean we are both young and its not like were married so its cool".
She txted back "Yeah. Im happy you care about me though. Feels good"
So i guess it sounds like everythings good now. But I do kinda feel like this lil argument might hover over us. How do you guys get over lil fights once you'ce made up? Do you just forget about them pretty much?
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top