"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should there be a special requirement for our lovely female posters on Sosuave

Should female posters on SS be required to show t!ts to be taken seriously?

  • Absolutely! A nice pair of t!ts adds a lot of quality and credibility to their contributions.

    Votes: 6 40.0%
  • That's sexist! Females are supposed to be judged by their brains, not their body parts!

    Votes: 1 6.7%
  • Meh, I rather see their backsides.

    Votes: 3 20.0%
  • Others (Please explicate further in your comments)

    Votes: 5 33.3%

  • Total voters
    15

ChrisFloyd

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Inspired by an idea proposed by a fallen comrade:

Since no one else is going to say something I guess I will. Here at sosuave we require female posters to "show tits" in order for us to take you seriously.

So, show your tits.

Thanks in advanced

, sprayac
Yay or Nay?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SeymourCake

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Tits or no tits, women should be banned from this forum. This forum should be treated as the men's locker room. Just don't walk around having a **** measuring contest with everyone.
 

logicallefty

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If we tried to go hard-core about women not being allowed on here we would get infested with more trolls. I think a few women here add value to the forum. The good women we have remind us all, especially jaded b@stards like myself, that there still are a few good ones out there. 100% of them aren't evil illogical beings (just 90%. No 95% lol). On the other hand it's also good to have a few crazy illogical off the rails women on here to set examples for the greenhorn Don Juans. To show the younger guys that yes women can be as bad as some of us older guys say . We don't make our stories up.
 

SmooveMooves

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Yay in favor of tits.

Let us renounce with joy and comradery. Aseth we demand the showeth of titulary.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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taiyuu_otoko

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Those who think that if we demand tits:

You REALLY think they'll be real pics, by real people?

The idea is silly. If you can't handle dudes and a few girls online, man good luck in the actual trenches. A lot can be learned by watching written interactions between the two species.
 
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user43770

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Tits or no tits, women should be banned from this forum. This forum should be treated as the men's locker room. Just don't walk around having a **** measuring contest with everyone.
I just skip over their posts.
 

BetterCallSaul

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If we tried to go hard-core about women not being allowed on here we would get infested with more trolls. I think a few women here add value to the forum. The good women we have remind us all, especially jaded b@stards like myself, that there still are a few good ones out there. 100% of them aren't evil illogical beings (just 90%. No 95% lol). On the other hand it's also good to have a few crazy illogical off the rails women on here to set examples for the greenhorn Don Juans. To show the younger guys that yes women can be as bad as some of us older guys say . We don't make our stories up.
I kinda like the idea they have a post a pic of their tits for an approval of their account. Hey, even if they send a fake one off the net, hell at least we all get some new tit pics right? It's something at least.

I figure though at a minimum, perhaps a nice pink highlight of some kind in their user name area to let us all know this user is a woman would be good.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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phillies

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If we tried to go hard-core about women not being allowed on here we would get infested with more trolls. I think a few women here add value to the forum. The good women we have remind us all, especially jaded b@stards like myself, that there still are a few good ones out there. 100% of them aren't evil illogical beings (just 90%. No 95% lol). On the other hand it's also good to have a few crazy illogical off the rails women on here to set examples for the greenhorn Don Juans. To show the younger guys that yes women can be as bad as some of us older guys say . We don't make our stories up.
They add little value. I have a feeling that they just play along (partially meaning it) so they can be accepted here, their reason for desiring to be accepted is irreverent.

We don't know what they're really like. We know they're well past their prime smv. For all we know they used to be vapid wh0res when they were young.

It's completely reasonable to judge a women by her past.

But really what does it matter? I personally don't place much value on their posts. If a person does they are clearly very new.

A woman having a change of heart just because her youth has faded doesn't mean she has a good character. A young woman with a good character counts.
 
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Huffman

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We don't know what they're really like. We know they're well past their prime smv. For all we know they used to be vapid wh0res when they were young.
Yeah, but younger girls tend to know even less what they want. If they've been on the carousel for 10 years and reflected on that - plus being open minded - it actually makes for interesting discussion.

We've had some younger girls here who just spewed bull**** but right now I think it's still ok.
 

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I m more of a bum man. Watching them bounce back when you re on the job just never gets old. Let them post. God knows plenty of the guys could do with the critical thinking practice.
 

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So long as I do not see b!tch behavior I am fine with their presence. I think that the subject of this forum should remain focused on men's issues, men's dating, Don Juan related subjects, ect. I am disapproving of dealing with women's issues simply because this is SoSuave, a forum for men, and they can talk about their issues somewhere else.
However, if a woman is not being disruptive or b!tchy then I see no issue with them joining in on a discussion. If they present bad advice or blue-pill logic then it gives the chance to show everyone how foolish that line of thinking is... The women on his forum appear to be a small minority anyway, and the few of them who are regular posters have provided reasonable discussion.


Besides, I do not want to see their tits… Honestly, most of the regular female posters are in their 40’s, and I regularly fvck women half their age. Seriously, I rather see younger and better tits up close and personal.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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zekko

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I have always been in favor of open discussion, and have never been a fan of heavy moderation. Therefore, I have no problem with women posting here. What I find more irritating is guys posing as women, I'm sure there are some of those here - I know there have been in the past. But actual women posting here I have no problem with. If you don't like certain people, don't read their posts - problem solved.

As for showing tits, obviously that's ridiculous. No one here is required to post a picture. I find it fascinating that some guys aren't that interested in boobs - I can't really relate. As a breast man myself, I find myself thinking about them far more than I should. I know it's silly, but it's like they are imprinted on my brain or something, and I end up obsessing over them. To me, they are the main defining female characteristic. I remember even when I was a child, I was fascinated with these "bumps" in females' shirts. Oh well.
 

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I think "Liveyourdream" is a great poster.

On the subject of boobs v butt. I am with zekko. I have always been a boob man. Those ripe, juicy melons.
 
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