Should The Guys Always Arrange Sex Meets?

[soulforge]

Aslong as she agrees to meet when you ask her to & flakes are minimal, does it really matter if the guy is the one reaching out, the vast majority of time to arrange a sex session?

End of the day she is a plate and nothing more.. So does one allow ego & pride get in the way?

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Men lead, women follow.

 

[Lookatu]

If you're the one wanting sex from her, you do the arranging. It's as simple as that.

Don't think about it too much. Some gals just need to feel wanted even though they might or might not be truly into the sex 100%.

Women want to feel wanted and desired and them having to ask definitely doesn't make them feel like that.

 

[soulforge]

Haha the sloot flaked.. She is taking her kid to a children in need event after work, and no counter offer.

I'm certain she will get in touch again about a meeting up soon, but I will outright reject.

I have low tolerance for flakes!

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Haha the sloot flaked.. She is taking her kid to a children in need event after work, and no counter offer.

I'm certain she will get in touch again about a meeting up soon, but I will outright reject.

I have low tolerance for flakes!

This was predictable.

 

[Kotaix]

A high interest woman will arrange sex meets and show up naked wearing nothing but a trench coat.

If she's a plate then your ego should not be damaged when she flakes on you.

 

[soulforge]

A high interest woman will arrange sex meets and show up naked wearing nothing but a trench coat.

If she's a plate then your ego should not be damaged when she flakes on you.

Yeh she was just a bang.. She is a slvt.. She ****ed me a couple of times in the past, while being in a relationship.

So I would never trust a hoe like that lol

Anyway did I respond OK to her flake?

Her - Not going to be able to do tomorrow, some, children in needs event has come up, which means I have to be home soon as possible

Me - OK that is fine no worries

By the way, tomorrow is children in need day in the UK.. So that part of her flake does check out.

 

[Kotaix]

A woman with a child should be expected to flake on you. If she's not putting her children before you, you REALLY don't want anything to do with her.

I stay away from all women who have children, it can only end in heartache if you like the kids.

 

[soulforge]

Did I respond okay to her flake?

There is no point in responding back with a butt hurt response.

I simply say, Yeh that's fine, not a problem..

Then cut her out of my life and give her zero time and attention ever again.

 

[Lookatu]

Dude, why are you making such a big deal about this?
You say it's not big deal but then your actions say something else.

Don't be pulling a Gambino on us man and create like 3 different threads on it. Just get her out of your mind and move on.

You got a scarcity mindset going on. Get out of it.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Yeh she was just a bang.. She is a slvt.. She ****ed me a couple of times in the past, while being in a relationship.

So I would never trust a hoe like that lol

Anyway did I respond OK to her flake?

Her - Not going to be able to do tomorrow, some, children in needs event has come up, which means I have to be home soon as possible

Me - OK that is fine no worries

By the way, tomorrow is children in need day in the UK.. So that part of her flake does check out.

And she just realized that the day before? Please

 

[soulforge]

Dude, why are you making such a big deal about this?
You say it's not big deal but then your actions say something else.

Don't be pulling a Gambino on us man and create like 3 different threads on it. Just get her out of your mind and move on.

You got a scarcity mindset going on. Get out of it.

Haha seriously I don't give fuks about the situation.. I'm putting it to rest already.

I just wanted to know, if my response to her flake by text was okay

 

[soulforge]

And she just realized that the day before? Please

She probably knew before hand, and was more likely going to tell me tonight or tomorrow.. But I messaged her today, so she let me know

 

[soulforge]

Dude, why are you making such a big deal about this?
You say it's not big deal but then your actions say something else.

Don't be pulling a Gambino on us man and create like 3 different threads on it. Just get her out of your mind and move on.

You got a scarcity mindset going on. Get out of it.

Dude I'm not on here losing my shyte and looking for a way to get things back on track...


All I wanted was thoughts on my response back to her text.. Then this matter is closed

 

[soulforge]

What do you guys usually respond back with by text when a girl flakes?

01. No response could be interpretated by her as, the dude is so butt hurt, he isn't even talking anymore.

02. Losing your shyte & shaming her for wasting your time (probably the worst move you could make)

03. My personal favourite.. Be totally cool about it.. Sound positive & even cheerful.. simply say it's cool... Then Drop her flakey ass.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

If you aren't planning on talking to her again I don't see why what she thinks even matters.

The only way it matters is if you are trying to still spin this in your favor down the road.

Honestly what I would do is work on finding new women and keep her in the background.

 

[soulforge]

If you aren't planning on talking to her again I don't see why what she thinks even matters.

The only way it matters is if you are trying to still spin this in your favor down the road.

Honestly what I would do is work on finding new women and keep her in the background.

Not sure what you mean by keep her in the background.

However my response was very cool & not so bothered about the flake.

Chances are she will start contacting again.. However I have had my bit of fun with her.

Have to take a low tolerance approach to flakes, so next communication from her will be getting ignored.. Unless she is wanting the D immediately