"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Should 'plates' ever know about one another?

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Lets say you're seeing a few different girls at the same time. I can only assume that if the 'plates' know about one another, (may not know who) but if they know their are others it can't be a good thing.

Should girls know you're seeing others, or should you always try and keep them thinking you're exclusive- (when you're simply just dating)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Depends on the girl. Some will just get a attitude like; "wtf are you doing with that slvt." Others might feel hurt cause they thought they were the only ones. Or you might be able to start a three way if you invite two of the girls you are spinning to a party to drink. I'd probably just keep my mouth shut though.
 
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yeah i've always kept my mouth shut.

I was recently thinking if there would be a benefit, (increasing jealousy) if she asks what you're doing one night and you say "oh i'm just hanging out with my friend tiffany"- like matter of fact not implying anything. It could get her mind running
 
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DJSavvy said:
yeah i've always kept my mouth shut.

I was recently thinking if there would be a benefit, (increasing jealousy) if she asks what you're doing one night and you say "oh i'm just hanging out with my friend tiffany"- like matter of fact not implying anything. It could get her mind running
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I would probably do the same thing, but I'm not sure what it ends up conveying.

And it blows chunks when they tell you they're hanging out with their friend Steve.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It all depends on the person, me personally every chick knows that I'm seeing other chicks, she can basically tell and actually see.

Usually when I'm hanging out with girls I usually bring friends and other girls I'm seeing, to me I'm just having a good time hanging out with people I like. Usually if its a family get together I bring as many girls as I can for my cousins and single uncles.

The girls don't have a problem with it because they know from the start what I'm about, its all just fun and good experiences whether the interaction is 2mins or 2 years.

This is why if I just met a girl I'll check out other chicks, talk to other chicks (most likely bringing original girl into the conversation) and overall mess with everyone because to me I'm not doing no traditional dating and the way I see it, if I have 1 gf then I'm being selfish so I'll have as many girls as I want and I act accordingly.
 
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Depends.

If the girl is bi definitely.

If the girl is new and needs to know you have other girls, so you can boost your value, yes. All girls want a product that's in demand.

If you've been out with her for a while and she assumes you are exclusive, Hell no of course.
 
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