Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Should 'plates' ever know about one another?

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Lets say you're seeing a few different girls at the same time. I can only assume that if the 'plates' know about one another, (may not know who) but if they know their are others it can't be a good thing.

Should girls know you're seeing others, or should you always try and keep them thinking you're exclusive- (when you're simply just dating)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Depends on the girl. Some will just get a attitude like; "wtf are you doing with that slvt." Others might feel hurt cause they thought they were the only ones. Or you might be able to start a three way if you invite two of the girls you are spinning to a party to drink. I'd probably just keep my mouth shut though.
 
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yeah i've always kept my mouth shut.

I was recently thinking if there would be a benefit, (increasing jealousy) if she asks what you're doing one night and you say "oh i'm just hanging out with my friend tiffany"- like matter of fact not implying anything. It could get her mind running
 
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DJSavvy said:
yeah i've always kept my mouth shut.

I was recently thinking if there would be a benefit, (increasing jealousy) if she asks what you're doing one night and you say "oh i'm just hanging out with my friend tiffany"- like matter of fact not implying anything. It could get her mind running
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I would probably do the same thing, but I'm not sure what it ends up conveying.

And it blows chunks when they tell you they're hanging out with their friend Steve.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It all depends on the person, me personally every chick knows that I'm seeing other chicks, she can basically tell and actually see.

Usually when I'm hanging out with girls I usually bring friends and other girls I'm seeing, to me I'm just having a good time hanging out with people I like. Usually if its a family get together I bring as many girls as I can for my cousins and single uncles.

The girls don't have a problem with it because they know from the start what I'm about, its all just fun and good experiences whether the interaction is 2mins or 2 years.

This is why if I just met a girl I'll check out other chicks, talk to other chicks (most likely bringing original girl into the conversation) and overall mess with everyone because to me I'm not doing no traditional dating and the way I see it, if I have 1 gf then I'm being selfish so I'll have as many girls as I want and I act accordingly.
 
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Depends.

If the girl is bi definitely.

If the girl is new and needs to know you have other girls, so you can boost your value, yes. All girls want a product that's in demand.

If you've been out with her for a while and she assumes you are exclusive, Hell no of course.
 
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