"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should 'plates' ever know about one another?

DJSavvy

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Lets say you're seeing a few different girls at the same time. I can only assume that if the 'plates' know about one another, (may not know who) but if they know their are others it can't be a good thing.

Should girls know you're seeing others, or should you always try and keep them thinking you're exclusive- (when you're simply just dating)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Depends on the girl. Some will just get a attitude like; "wtf are you doing with that slvt." Others might feel hurt cause they thought they were the only ones. Or you might be able to start a three way if you invite two of the girls you are spinning to a party to drink. I'd probably just keep my mouth shut though.
 

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yeah i've always kept my mouth shut.

I was recently thinking if there would be a benefit, (increasing jealousy) if she asks what you're doing one night and you say "oh i'm just hanging out with my friend tiffany"- like matter of fact not implying anything. It could get her mind running
 

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DJSavvy said:
yeah i've always kept my mouth shut.

I was recently thinking if there would be a benefit, (increasing jealousy) if she asks what you're doing one night and you say "oh i'm just hanging out with my friend tiffany"- like matter of fact not implying anything. It could get her mind running
I would probably do the same thing, but I'm not sure what it ends up conveying.

And it blows chunks when they tell you they're hanging out with their friend Steve.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Snow Plowman

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It all depends on the person, me personally every chick knows that I'm seeing other chicks, she can basically tell and actually see.

Usually when I'm hanging out with girls I usually bring friends and other girls I'm seeing, to me I'm just having a good time hanging out with people I like. Usually if its a family get together I bring as many girls as I can for my cousins and single uncles.

The girls don't have a problem with it because they know from the start what I'm about, its all just fun and good experiences whether the interaction is 2mins or 2 years.

This is why if I just met a girl I'll check out other chicks, talk to other chicks (most likely bringing original girl into the conversation) and overall mess with everyone because to me I'm not doing no traditional dating and the way I see it, if I have 1 gf then I'm being selfish so I'll have as many girls as I want and I act accordingly.
 

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Depends.

If the girl is bi definitely.

If the girl is new and needs to know you have other girls, so you can boost your value, yes. All girls want a product that's in demand.

If you've been out with her for a while and she assumes you are exclusive, Hell no of course.
 
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