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Should pick up girl from/walk girl to door?

justin11

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I got my license a few months ago, and I was wondering what the proper way to go about picking up/driving girls is. If I'm picking a girl up to go hangout with just us two, should I go up to the door or should I just text her to come out? Also, at the end of the night if I'm dropping her home, should I walk her to the door or just park and say goodbye then? Thanks
 

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NorwegianDJ

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Definitely at end of night, unless you hook up in the car. Or if you see her in a romantic way, i'd walk her to her door. Common courtesy and its a great way to make a move. I'd apply the same logic to picking her up, but that's a lot more lenient.
 
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