"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Should Owen take Kate Hudson back...

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Just thought I'd post this and find out what fellow DJ's thoughts are. Should he take her back after she left him and had a new boyfriend...?

"KATE Hudson is reportedly trying to rekindle her romance with ex-boyfriend Owen Wilson after splitting from Dax Shepard.

The Almost Famous actress is said to be desperate to woo back Owen - who was taken to hospital in August after a failed suicide bid - after realising she still loves him.

A source said: "It was working out between her and Dax but it's a clean break.

"After Owen's suicide attempt, she realised how much she loved him, and broke up with Dax."

Kate - who has a three-year-old son, Ryder, with ex-husband Chris Robinson - began dating Owen last year after meeting on the set of You, Me and Dupree.

However, they split in June following reports they clashed over his wild lifestyle.

Pals of Owen say he was devastated by the break-up and was heartbroken when he saw pictures of Kate and Employee of the Month star Dax canoodling while shopping.

Just days later, he was rushed to hospital when his actor brother Luke found him unconscious after slashing his wrists.

However, The Wedding Crashers actor has made a good recovery and earlier this month, he attended the Los Angeles premiere of his new film The Darjeeling Limited."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mintxx

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She's a fukwit. He's a massive AFC. Who cares?
 

ThunderMaverick

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If she's his only reason for living then no, he shouldn't take her back. He forgot how life was worth living before her. I'm pretty sure he wasn't living to make someone else happy. He needs to fix how he looks at himself.

It seems Kate is going back to him out of pity. If he didn't attempt suicide, then would she care about getting back with him? I dunno.


This story, although gossip, speaks in volumes about the control we allow women to have over us. Although it makes her feel valid in some morbid way, I doubt she truly wants the guy to kill himself over her. He should definitely seek some help....before getting with ANYONE.
 

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Is canoodling a word?

If so it should be outlawed
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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the LAST thing owen needs is to reintroduce into his life the very reason he attempted suicide in the first place!!!!

if he takes her back he's an idiot who is not doing what he needs to do - which is get his head on straight. he can only get his head on straight by focusing on himself and not some chic that gets his head all f*cked up such that he wants to kill himself if she leaves him.

and she's an idiot if she goes back to him because she will be directly interfering with the psychological work he needs to do to fix himself so that he isn't depressed / suicidal in the future.

and yet, having said that, im sure we'll see them on larry king together in a few months saying everything is now hunky dorry.

and then in about 2-3 years from now we'll hear that owen took his life and this time succeeded by blowing his brains out.

when someone reaches the point of wanting to commit suicide they must STOP, drop out of 'regular' life for a while and get help. this is a critical period in his life. if he doesn't address what is wrong with him and fix it, next time, it likely will kill him.
 

joekerr31

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STR8UP said:
Is canoodling a word?

If so it should be outlawed
ya. canoodling is when a woman inserts a bunch of noodles into her vagina (well half way in anyway).

then she stands over a man and he eats the noodles by sucking them out of her vagina.

at least thats how websters defines canoodling.
 

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Once again, proof positive. It doesn't matter how good you look. It doesn't matter if you have the social proof of a major celebrity. It doesn't matter if you're a multi-millionaire. ONEitis can and will kill you.

Affluence, sex appeal, fame, are all superceded by the psychology of the Average Frustrated Chump.

AFC Suicide
 

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I've always thought Owen Wilson was pimp enough to pull anyone but when I see crap like Tom Cruise marrying some tall younger girl chick (Katie Holmes) and marrying her (from what I can tell is probably an inferiority complex) or Michael Jackson...I'm guessing the most popular people tend to have be the most insecure motherf*ckers around.

Like Jon Stewart or Bill Maher, they seem like confident guys that can pull some serious tail, but it's just an image they're projecting like they need approval from others.
 

joekerr31

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when you see someone on tv or in the movies you are seeing a persona - a well crafted persona at that.

its a myth that being famous somehow makes you super human.

yes, you can pull all kinds of tail. but having a stable relationship i would predict would be even harder! because both parties have this 'persona' that is NOT them.

when you take the script away, when you take the joke writers away, when you remove the make up, etc. these people really are no different than anyone else.

the only difference is perhaps they tend to be more extroverted and greater risk takers than your average joe. neither of which are of any help in building a solid relationship with another human being.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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