I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The Rock can ask the Cute receptionist at your job if she wants to do him in his brand new ferrari..The whole "women are bad" thing is for betas. Do you think the Rock or Derek Jeter think that women are bad?
Good point.If you value others life more than yours you agree to be disposable asset.You agree your life is worth less than life of other being - I believe men have kamikadze gen this with social programming helps society to go on.Yewki said:Valuing your wife's life over your own is pathetic. I never understood how this even became a thing. It's basically like saying you value yourself less than a good friend of yours... are people serious with this sh*t?
Gotta love the newlywed chumps who exclaim, "I love her so much, I would die for her" ... yeah ok, you're like 30 years old. You've known her for what 2 years? And you'd trade your entire life for her? Why again are you allowed to vote?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The whole "women are perfect" thing is for betas too.skinnyguy said:The whole "women are bad" thing is for betas. Do you think the Rock or Derek Jeter think that women are bad?
People still slap? Cant recall the last time ive seen someone (seriously) slap someone else that wasnt in a movie or on TV.Poon King said:The whole "women are perfect" thing is for betas too.
Women are not pure evil.. but they don't deserve a pedestal either. When a man slaps a woman across the face.. you should never "gasp". When a parent slaps their child there is no gasp. When a woman slaps a woman there is no gasp. When a man slaps a man there is no gasp.
Join me in my quest to end white knighting.![]()
Yup. More like, children are children so why be flustered by them?The whole "women are bad" thing is for betas. Do you think the Rock or Derek Jeter think that women are bad?
Better not board that boat before a woman, because she's special... better pay her the same as a man, because she's equal. Derp.BlueAlpha1 said:I want to comment on the "women and children first" on a sinking ship norm. I took a cruise in February of 2013 and they STILL SAY THIS during the emergency drill on the first night. You could hear me muttering snarky comments loud enough so a few people nearby could hear me.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
All that information and THIS is what you took from it?jurry said:People still slap? Cant recall the last time ive seen someone (seriously) slap someone else that wasnt in a movie or on TV.