Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The Rock can ask the Cute receptionist at your job if she wants to do him in his brand new ferrari..The whole "women are bad" thing is for betas. Do you think the Rock or Derek Jeter think that women are bad?
Good point.If you value others life more than yours you agree to be disposable asset.You agree your life is worth less than life of other being - I believe men have kamikadze gen this with social programming helps society to go on.Yewki said:Valuing your wife's life over your own is pathetic. I never understood how this even became a thing. It's basically like saying you value yourself less than a good friend of yours... are people serious with this sh*t?
Gotta love the newlywed chumps who exclaim, "I love her so much, I would die for her" ... yeah ok, you're like 30 years old. You've known her for what 2 years? And you'd trade your entire life for her? Why again are you allowed to vote?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The whole "women are perfect" thing is for betas too.skinnyguy said:The whole "women are bad" thing is for betas. Do you think the Rock or Derek Jeter think that women are bad?
People still slap? Cant recall the last time ive seen someone (seriously) slap someone else that wasnt in a movie or on TV.Poon King said:The whole "women are perfect" thing is for betas too.
Women are not pure evil.. but they don't deserve a pedestal either. When a man slaps a woman across the face.. you should never "gasp". When a parent slaps their child there is no gasp. When a woman slaps a woman there is no gasp. When a man slaps a man there is no gasp.
Join me in my quest to end white knighting.![]()
Yup. More like, children are children so why be flustered by them?The whole "women are bad" thing is for betas. Do you think the Rock or Derek Jeter think that women are bad?
Better not board that boat before a woman, because she's special... better pay her the same as a man, because she's equal. Derp.BlueAlpha1 said:I want to comment on the "women and children first" on a sinking ship norm. I took a cruise in February of 2013 and they STILL SAY THIS during the emergency drill on the first night. You could hear me muttering snarky comments loud enough so a few people nearby could hear me.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
All that information and THIS is what you took from it?jurry said:People still slap? Cant recall the last time ive seen someone (seriously) slap someone else that wasnt in a movie or on TV.